there are times in our lives when we are confronted with the dillema on whether we need to stick with it or simply move on. actions are varied and largely depends on how each person react to the situation. more often, the emotional fiber of such person plays the bigger role. we are afraid to lose the person whom we loved so much. but what if the person we loved doesnt love us anymore? is it worth dying for? situations are different. same situation may happen to different people and reactions are, in most cases, different. maybe because we are unique individuals and we act to situations differently.
But the bottomline settles down to one thing, will it be benefecial to all concerned? some say that life itself is of pains and being hurt. that it never meant to be a bed of roses. do we always let ourselves be hurt? in the end, the final question is maybe along this line, are we fair to ourselves? in the movie kungfu panda, master uguay, the turtle teacher said to panda, "yesterday is a past, tomorrow is a mystery but today is a gift". it doesnt meant we have to forget and deny ourselves on the joy that life brings. we simply need to enjoy God's gift. the gift of being alive everyday. we need to happy and contented with what we have. we dont need life's excessess to be happy.
while waiting for my teacher, i just found myself surfing the net for quotations all about moving and was not disappointed for i found what i'm looking for. i really take these lines by heart and feel it to fully understand its meaning.
guys, simply feel them. here they are.
Sometimes the cards we are dealt are not always fair. However you must keep smiling & moving on ~
Tom Jackson
~ Moving on, is a simple thing, what it leaves behind is hard. ~
Dave Mustaine
~ To be able to move on, one has to learn to forgive not only the person (or people) who have done one wrong but also oneself ~
Eugenia Tripputi
~ By forgiving and choosing to move on, one takes the power back to morph it into positive energy. ~
Eugenia Tripputi
~ Life is about making the right decisions and moving on. ~
Josh
~ Forgiveness and letting go are steps on our road back to happiness. ~
Tina Dayton
~ You are responsible for your life. You can't keep blaming somebody else for your dysfunction. Life is really about moving on. ~
Oprah Winfrey
~ Take a second out to think about this: in your life you search and search for the right person for you. Every time you break up with someone you get one step closer to that person. You should look at moving on as getting closer to meeting the one. ~
Ian Philpot
~ Quietly forgiving and moving on is a gift to God ~ and yourself. ~
Unknown
~ When you start to abandoning your old beliefs or values... you may be stuck at the threshold for two or three years. Before moving on, you have to clear away your cherished beliefs. ~
Dick Raymond
~ Courage is not the absence of fear, but simply moving on with dignity despite that fear. ~
Pat Riley
~ one shot at a time and then move on. Remember that golf is just ~
Nancy Lopez
~ The art of war is simple enough. Find out where your enemy is. Get at him as soon as you can. Strike him as hard as you can and as often as you can, and keep moving on. ~
Ulysses S. Grant
~ Moving On has allowed me to know who I am and to be present in all that I do. I take this forward in my work and in my personal relationships. It is a powerful program and I highly recommend it to anyone wanting to move on with their life. ~
Lou
~ If someone you love hurts you cry a river, build a bridge, and get over it. ~
Unknown
~ Letting go doesn't mean giving up... it means moving on. It is one of the hardest things a person can do. Starting at birth, we grasp on to anything we can get our hands on, and hold on as if we will cease to exist when we let go. We feel that letting go is giving up, quitting, and that as we all know is cowardly. But as we grow older we are forced to change our way of thinking. We are forced to realize that letting go means accepting things that cannot be. It means maturing and moving on, no matter how hard you have to fight yourself to do so." ~
Unknown
~ Any change, any loss, does not make us victims. Others can shake you, surprise you, disappoint you, but they can't prevent you from acting, from taking the situation you're presented with and moving on. No matter where you are in life, no matter what your situation, you can always do something. You always have a choice and the choice can be power. ~
1 comment:
sometimes saying the words"moving on" is as simple as snap of our fingers, maybe because it is pleasant to ears and can be helpful to someone but the truth is we do not know the how of it,the first step is the most difficult thing to do, the hardest..shall I say.We mostly do not consider ourselves but the important people sorround us, the effects that might cause them lifetime hate to love.if it is just myself, I am sure crying day and night,talking to oneself,flying to a place knowing no one,swim,hike and then shoutttt..... can do a lot.You can always tell the world that if it is the end let it be the end for you do not want these hurt feelings eat the very least of you.But things are different,children can't understand serious things like this,I don't want to stop them dreaming of a healthy family relationship which will help them in building their own family in the future, i can't,can't,can't. i would rather let myself be stuck and be in pain....parang laughing outside, crying inside lng..haha
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